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Unfortunately, that isn’t always the case.
Whether the bride or groom is dealing with a disability or one of the invited guests is living with one, accessibility should be at the forefront of your mind as you plan the big day. Thankfully, there are plenty of ways you can plan an accessible wedding without giving up any of the small details you want and love.
Let’s take a look at how you can ensure your wedding is accessible, whether you’re dealing with a disability yourself, or you’re a planner who is trying to include everyone and provide security and comfort when you know certain guests will have accessibility issues.
Consider Breaking From Tradition
One of the easiest ways to make your wedding more accessible is by stepping away from what most people might consider “traditional.” That could start with choosing a venue that prioritizes accessibility with wheelchair ramps or stability bars in the bathrooms.
Once you have a venue in mind, think about other non-traditional details that might make things easier on you, the bride and groom, or your guests. Wearing something that’s comfortable and easier to move around in can make a big difference, rather than lavish gowns and stiff suits.
Finally, you could really break from tradition and decide to elope. It’s more cost-effective, you can decide exactly where you want to go that’s easiest for you, and you can throw a party with friends and family later with less stress and pressure.
Select the Right Vendors
In today’s world, many wedding vendors are used to accommodating a variety of requests. Do your research when it comes to your vendors and consider working with those who have experience with accessible weddings, including:
- Caterers
- Bakers
- DJs/live musicians
- Designers
- Wedding planners
For example, your caterers should be able to work with you to create a menu that fits everyone’s dietary needs and restrictions. Your DJ can put together an accessible dancefloor or provide other options for those who want to enjoy the music but aren’t able to dance. Picking the right vendors to take care of things will take a lot of stress off of your shoulders and will ensure those living with disabilities are still able to have fun.
Take Care of Yourself
Wedding planning can be stressful, no matter what. When you take those living with disabilities into account, it can start to feel overwhelming. While there are plenty of ways to make your wedding more accessible, there’s no denying it will take a bit of extra work.
So, it’s important to maintain your mental and physical health throughout the planning process. Avoid anxiety by setting realistic expectations for the big day, giving yourself plenty of space and time to plan things, and prioritizing self-care every step of the way.
It’s not uncommon for people living with disabilities to experience mental health challenges on a regular basis, due to things like:
- Lack of accessibility
- Lack of affordable care
- Limited motivation
Don’t let wedding planning become something that causes your mental health to suffer even more. Practice self-compassion throughout the planning process. Analyze your inner voice and ask yourself what you need. Think about how you would treat a friend going through a stressful time, and show yourself the same kindness.
Whether it’s you, your soon-to-be spouse, or a wedding guest living with a disability, everyone should be able to enjoy the big day equally. Keep these ideas in mind to prioritize accessibility at your wedding, and manage your mental well-being while you work through the planning stages.
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